Hmmm??? What does this mean? Does it mean Yes or does it mean No?? Donno but it’s a mystery which creates a history. God knows but we still donno why people say hmmm…..
Be clear in what ever you say. Say it No if you don’t want to say yes but be sure. As hmmm for you means just delaying the things but it might create a lot of hopes and misconception in mind of others which in future if doesn’t come true hurt him a lot.
Well was is hmm, lets see, might be later means actually. It’s nothing but the misconception that one has in our mind and due to which we creates a false hope for others. Why should we do such thing? When we are not sure we create a problem for other. Isn’t that bad?? Think!!!
Now we say that saying No might hurt others but do you thing giving false hopes by saying hmmm, let’s see, might be later would not hurt him?? If you think so than it’s the worst misconception that you have. You think he will forget but no, he won’t tell you and infact you forget but that’s the worst part for him which hurts him later. Leave the habit dear, think on it?? When you can’t give happiness to other why to give false hopes and make him rise on the top of mountain to throw him upside down from top so that he can’t ever get up gain. Think…Think on it.
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Dear Nihit
I feel glad and honored to be invited by you to read a couple of good posts posted by you on your blog. You have highlighted a great issue of concern. You are right in pointing out that many a time others suffer due to our indecisiveness which should not be there on our part. A great write up. Keep it up.
hi nihit..
pretty good article.its different from the troden path. Well, i think if some one is telling the other Hmmm!!, the person must have been asked to do some work. But as the person might not be interested in doing it, he could utter Hmmm. At that point of time, the person who asked him for some work should clearly put his willlingness. otherwise it is definitely going to harm himself. I dont know how many would agree to me....bye have a nice time!!
Lets see one more side of the story (if possible :D).
Hmm ....
u said either say a yes or a no ... but what if the person wants to say a yes but is waiting for some time , for some work to be done, for some clearance ??! he must be positive enough to say yes... hmm is just a contigency factor.
and another hmmmm is when u anger him and he dosent want to talk to u :P ...
hehe ..
anyway...good write ...
A simple "Hmmm", I also wonder what that means? The dictionary doesn't have a definition for it so perhaps because it cannot be defined.
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ok buggy i have created a group TEAMGOOGLE AT http://teamgoogle.blogspot.com and the club members are making money, do consult them some of them are.
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2. 7th sense
3. desiguru and
4. beekay
u can be next to join the group.. so join now.
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Hi!!! i came here through shruti's blog...and 'Hmmmm' was waht caught my attention!! i had written a post on Hmmmmmm some time back..but i think my views were different from urs...neways..have a look dere 2...
http://expressionssss.blogspot.com/2007/05/hmmm.html
TRUE!
HI Nihit,
sorry for being late..instead too late to read this..
Well, i want to potrat a verydiferect idea from this..
Hmmm, only means that the person is in process of thinking.now you cant percieve that it will be positive or negative..
What hurts us is only our expectations., not other's decisions or answers..
So, dont perceive anything before you get a clear cut answers otherwise you will get hurted only bcoz of your expectations...
Take care and God bless you..
Hey buddy,
seems to be in some thinking process..
well, i hope till now you surely got to knwo..what this HMMM means.. :)
good article...! KEEP IT UP..!
Hmmmmmm
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